Next best thing.

MOVING FORWARD IS NEVER ABOUT THE OTHER PARTY, IT’S ALWAYS ABOUT YOU.

How can something so good, end so bad? One second you are having the time of your life with whom you believe to be your soulmate and the next you are crying and dwelling on what could have been. You begin to question yourself. Where did I go wrong? How could I have invested more in this relationship? What were the signs I missed?

You find insecurities in yourself that you never knew existed. In your mind, you believe that you’ll never be able to emotionally invest in another relationship the way you did with this one. You think that you will never be able to love, trust, and grow with another person again. The thought of caring for someone else is almost extinct in your mind. But here is the thing, no matter how much letting go may hurt, contemplating the past will hurt more.

I’m not a relationship expert, however, within the past 3 years, I have seen some of my favorite couples walk away from each other. I have seen friends and family left heartbroken, lost, and confused after a relationship ended. I’m here to state this, no matter how much this may hurt, it does get better. Allow your past relationships to work in your favor as a teaching mechanisms.

Getting over someone is hard. discovering who you are after a relationship his even harder. However, allowing someone who is willing to love you in the way you deserve, is so rewarding.

The next best thing awaits you, you just have to trust and believe that it’s out there!